Category: Relationships

Financial Independence is Much Harder as a Couple

Love ain't FIRE

Love ain’t FIRE

It’s true.  Math and Science don’t lie!  I will prove it in this article. 

Getting to financial independence or retired early (FIRE) stage is not easy – it requires of years of persistent effort, discipline and an ability to think for yourself and often against the ‘grain’ of modern lifestyle and social norms.   Maybe one in a hundred people will have the wherewithal to reach FIRE.   So, the probability of getting to FIRE is say about 1%, whether you are a man or a woman.

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Get Mental

Fitness, that is!  In the professional world, we spend a lot of effort trying to look good.   This ‘looking good’ can happen by dressing, demeanor, dialogue or documentation (the last one is also part of how you are judged).   All of this looking good business can leave you tired and chasing the wrong habits.  There are coping mechanisms to retain your sanity and stay mentally fit.  

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Money & Relationships: Rules That Work

Love may be blind but life isn’t! Long term domestic partnerships are not the garden path of roses leading to a velvety beach that romantic novels, movies and dating websites want you to believe.   As a married man for over 12 years, and also, raising a kid together, I think I have earned the right to comment about domestic partnerships. 🙂  This post is about a topic that any person with a ‘significant other’ must confront at some point on their journey towards financial independence.   

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